Sometimes in life, our world changes. Maybe it’s because we made the choice to change it, or maybe it’s because it’s changing due to circumstances we have no control over. Whatever the reason, we have two choices. Either we can embrace the change or we can be unhappy about it.
Being unhappy about it doesn’t really seem like it will do any good in the end. The change is still going to come. And trying to fight it is only going to waste time that could be better spent figuring out how to deal with it, how to get through it, and how to get on with it. I’m not necessarily talking about a life or death health issue here. Some of those are definitely a worthwhile fight.
What I’m talking about are changes that come in life that make us have to make choices. Like job changes or moving changes or career changes. Maybe its a change to live with someone like a roommate, spouse, or boyfriend/girlfriend. Whatever the change, we know the road is uncertain.
We can’t see the end result, so how can we even be sure we are doing the right thing? Well, I don’t know the answer to that. What I do know is that once you make your choice, don’t look back. Keep moving forward, one step at a time, until your road gets better.
You may not always be able to see what’s at the end of the path or even what lies ahead at times. Everything seems unsure, and you can’t always see things clearly. But if you have a goal, a plan of what you’re after, of where you want to be or get to, then you can make it through the seemingly scary parts. Keep your eye on what lies beyond the obscurity.
Because, you know, sometimes it the part of the road that makes us have to take chances and figure it all out without a map to get us through that teaches us the important things in life. It’s that part that makes us grow and learn and become a better person. It can be that exact part that makes us proud of ourselves for making it through and coming out even better than when we started this path, this unknown road.
And you might have to make some detours along the way. But that’s okay, too. A straight road, while seemingly safe and secure, can make for less adventure, excitement, and opportunity for growth. You might not always know which way to go. Some days, you could be heading one direction, a little to the right, and the next week, you could be headed a little to the left. As long as your still moving forward, that’s what matters the most.
Traveling down unknown roads can be nerve-racking, or full of uncertainty that brings anxiety. Change can do that sometimes. But if we remember that we are strong and can deal with anything that comes up as we travel along, we can end up in a pretty good place. And then, and only then, we can look back at the road we traveled to get to our destination and realize what we endured to get here and how much better it made us. And then we can smile with pride at how we conquered our fears and took a chance, with confidence, that no matter where our road ended, we made the best of it and we let it make us a better person.
And there are no pretty pictures for that. We all make our own picture of our lives that fit us. Go out and find yours!